So one gave two shits about my last article about the
iGoon's definition of a hook up (which means I have to step it up I guess) And I never know when yall are going to like an article because I was mad hyped about the hooking up one and got only three comments
(HAHAHAHA) So I was feeling myself
(pause) and got no love but it's all good in the hood...So I guess I have make some kind of transition to talk about beating your kids...
TRANSITION
So today's article is about beating your kids...Should we do it? Should kids be allowed to call up social services? Call the police? Tell people about it? Damn...I have to keep it real in this article and hopefully yall do too...
SO LETS GO!!!First I'd like to just say that I got beat when I was a kid...Simple...I got beat for lying, hitting my sister, doing stupid shit that I wasn't supposed to...Did I learn from all my beatings as a young lad? Hell yea...For example, I've told this story a couple of times to my close peoples, but I was in elementary school and for some reason I decided to take some safety scissors
(Yup those scissors suck...) and cut a bunch of my hair...I knew this was going to cause some problems when I went home...So I went home with a patch of hair missing and mamadukes asked me what the hell happened...I told her that a bully at school forced me into the bathroom and cut my hair...hahaha...That was the best lie I could come up with at the moment...I wasn't trying to take the responsibility for messing up my own hair but damn that was a stupid lie...But mamadukes knew the deal...She said "Ok...I'm going to school with you tomorrow so I can handle it." DAMNIT!!!! Now I knew that I had to make a decision as to to tell the truth now or just get embarraassed when mamadukes showed up at school...My mom's plan worked because I just snitched on myself like it was nothing...I got beat...Simple as that...Not for cutting me hair...Don't get it twisted...But for lying I was put on punishment...Good reason...And then of course we had a sit down about lying...
So let me keep it 100 right now...iGoon will beat his kids when they mess up, act disrespectful, and just act stupid...Do I really want to beat my kids? Nope...But as a beatee
(new word) it did wonders for me...My parents didn't have to beat me for every stupid thing that I did but that one time was good enough for like 6-10 months, then I would forget about that beating, do something reckless like start a fight with the neighbor's kid, have my mom find out, and get beat again...I deserved it...I didn't come away with scars or any hatred towards my parents...I took a gamble and I lost...I faced the consequences...
But we all know that this is not a perfect world...Some kids do really get abused...Child abuse...And that shit is not funny, nor safe for the kid...That's not a good household to live in when for every mistake that a child does they get smacked across the face, hit with a belt...It's just wrong for a parent to abuse their power like that...We all know that a parent is stronger than their kids around those ages so that parent must also know their own strength...If I beat my kid, I cannot just punch him like I would as if I were in a fight with an enemy...You do enough to remind them that what they did was wrong...A light tap on a baby lets them know that they can write on the walls...A medium slap with the belt reminds us that when we disrespect our parents then that shit will happen...And at the end of the day there is no reason to abuse a child that you love and nurture for...Just give them that friendly reminder that you are the boss...that you are in charge...My mom still gives me that look here and there like
"Yo...I know you're older but I'll still rock you." HAHAHA....
So I guess the question for yall are 1. Do you think that beating your kids will help with their development? 2. Will you beat your kids? & 3. What kind of stories do you have? Fill us in...let us know the deal...Thanks for reading
